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Does focus, drive, planning or anything else speed up our destinies? No, it makes no difference. We struggle against ourselves until we give ourselves permission to take the next step. No other person can speed up or slow down the experience. What is far more important than the end result is the experience itself. Yet we focus so much on the end result that we miss the nuances of the experience.
Posted: 2010-02-10
Category: Self Improvement
Bullies are people who have been deeply hurt and who lash out to the world to give that hurt back. If we can respond to bullies with Love, we help them to Love themselves. We also learn how to Love ourselves.
Posted: 2010-01-25
Category: Self Improvement
There are a few simple steps to making the Secret work. Step one is always perfect. Once we have experienced step one, we start to sabotage ourselves. Whatever we do from there onwards, proves the point that we want to prove - including our conviction that the Secret does not work for us. We cause our own stress because we do not understand how we sabotage ourselves.
Posted: 2010-01-12
Category: Self Improvement
Being made redundant is a life-changing experience and a privilege. Too many people see redundancy as a failure when it is in fact a release and a new opportunity. More people will be made redundant in future. The best way to deal with it is to prepare for the opportunity.
Posted: 2009-12-16
Category: Self Improvement
Following the call of your heart and your inner voice initially takes courage, but once you do it, there is no stopping you. Good stress is not having enough hours in the day to do what you love doing. Bad stress is not having enough hours in the day to comply with the demands of another person's life calling. When you follow your heart, you live an authentic life.
Posted: 2009-12-08
Category: Health & Fitness
Life might be difficult or life might be interesting. We get born to experience a specific series of life lessons. We die when we have completed our lessons, or when our resistance against the lessons get so much that our physical bodies can no longer cope under the strain. We can reduce our stress and live healthy, content lives.
Posted: 2009-11-30
Category: Health & Fitness
Energy-takers are not easy to be around because they drain our energy. Energy-creators either contribute to the world and inspire us, or give their energy away without being aware of it. If you have difficulty sleeping you could be in the wrong job because your energy is drained by an energy-taker or by those activities that go against who you are.
Posted: 2009-11-26
Category: Health & Fitness
We make New Year's resolutions because we want to reduce the stress we experience. The result is more stress, because we place unreasonable demands on ourselves. The solution is to deal with the cause of any stress, learn valuable lessons and take charge of your life.
Posted: 2009-11-18
Category: Self Improvement
Stress is always the result of an inner tension which is expressed as tension in your body. Ignore the stress and it gets worse. Deal with the stress and you regain control of your life.
Posted: 2009-11-11
Category: Health & Fitness
Family and relatives have a special bond. They ensure that there is always balance in the larger family unit.
Posted: 2009-10-22
Category: Society
If under-age shop assistants are forced to decide whether parents can buy alcohol when their children are with them, legislation becomes a sick joke.
Posted: 2009-10-18
Category: Self Improvement
We do not have unpleasant experiences for no reason. Each one of our experiences contain a teaching and helps us to grow spiritually.
Posted: 2009-10-08
Category: Self Improvement
Why is it that some intelligent people would go out of their way to simply swallow what they are told? Surely we received brains so that we can investigate and make up our own minds?
Posted: 2009-09-28
Category: Self Improvement
Organised religion is about a particular view of the world. This view needs to be adapted quote often so that people would continue to believe that their salvation lies in a one-sided interpretation of the truth.
Posted: 2009-09-17
Category: Religion
It is possible to heal the world with Love. We cannot ignore the evidence for much longer.
Posted: 2009-09-06
Category: Self Improvement
