Many relationship experts say that 90% of the break ups can be reversed. If that is true, why is it that so many people still fail to get their ex back?

Well, it all boils down to the top 2 reasons.

1)Wrong Timing

When it comes to winning an ex back, the timing is extremely important. Most men and women try to get their ex back immediately after the break up. This is definitely not recommeneded.

Here's why. When people first break up, they are usually extremely emotional. They may feel angry at their ex. Or they may be sad, confused or even a bit depressed. This will usually last for at least a few days to even weeks depending on how each individual manage their own emotions.

The fact is, it is extremely unlikely for any men or women to get their ex back when they are feeling so emotional.

Trying to contact an ex can be counter productive as they are very likely to do and say the wrong thing which will only push their ex further and further away.

If you want to get your ex back, you must give yourself some time to recover from your break up. You need to have a clear mind so that you can seriously think about what you want and whether the relationship is worth saving.

2)Not Having a Plan

If you look at successful people, they tend to have a plan in probably every important task that they do. Getting an ex back is nothing different. You need to have a plan before you start doing anything to win back your ex. Although we won't be able to talk about the plan in detail in this article, here are some of the things you need to know.

For example, you need to know when is the right time to start contacting your ex. You need to know what the most common mistakes are so that you can avoid them and avoid pushing your ex away without knowing why. You also need to know how to reverse the situation if you have already made all kinds of mistakes.

Of course, you will also need to know how to test out your ex to see if he/she still has any feelings for you and many more. Having a plan is critical if you want to get your ex back successfully.

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