Did you know that spoken words comprise of only 7% of the entire communication process? Where does the 93% go? Well, to body language of course. And if you know how to make use of this body language, then you can make any date with your sugardaddie successful!
So what are a few of the things that you can watch out for that perfect body language?
First, there's your POSTURE. Yeah, those lessons in elementary school will pay off. Remember all those times in elementary school when the teacher made you walk around with books on your head? Well, better remember those good times because indeed, you can and you should, use it to your advantage in your date. Walk straight, don't slouch. Slouching is a common sign of insecurity, so stand tall and stand proud. But don't stand too stiff. When conversing, lean forward so that he would know that you are interested in what he has to say.
Titling your head and nodding are also good posture signs that you are engaged in the conversation and listening to whatever it is he has to say.
Second, remember to give him SPACE. When I mentioned leaning towards him, it doesn't mean that you have to lean ON him. Towards is different from on. Especially if its just your first or second date, personal space must be respected. Keep your distance a bit. This would mean that you are respecting his personal space, and that he should respect yours too. You would not want to be too physically close on the first few dates?
Third, your body language also tells when you are nervous. Stop fidgeting with your hands, your bag, your hanky. This would show that you do feel nervous, which your date might mirror too, and will make HIM nervous and uneasy. Now, I know that some of us might have these nervous habits, but still, try to control it, and try to appear calm and relaxed so that your date might feel the same. However, hand gestures are good body language signs because it helps in emphasizing points.
Now, pay close attention to your hands too. Clenched hands show nervousness or uptightness, while unclenched hands mean that you are open to him. Caressing things like your hair, your blouse, or your glass rim, may come across as sensual, so unless you're intentionally aiming for this, try to stop this nervous habit.
Hands in the pockets, assuming that you have pockets, cleaning your eyeglasses, or balling your fists are all negative body language, while finger pointing, drumming, and wagging are signals that you are impatient and wish for the date to end.
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