Last week, we looked at the obstacles that might lie between you and your goals. Now, it's time to 'think positive' and examine the factors that are there to help you. Where can you find support for the changes you want to make in your life? Who can help you? Well, there are two answers to that last question: 1) Other people; and 2) You.
Other people tend to fall into three broad categories: 1. those who are on your side - they will help you actively and willingly; 2. those who are against you - maybe they're competing with you, maybe they just don't like you, maybe they prefer the 'old you' for some reason, but they may try to stop you achieving your goals; 3. everyone else - they may not take too much interest for their own sake but if you ask them to help then they will usually do so.
Think about the people you know and come into contact with. Into which categories do they fall? Make the most of the first category. Talk to them about your goals and plans, share your dreams. These people will then be thinking of ways in which they can help you. Suddenly you have a team, all working towards your better life!
Now look at the third category. You need to engage with these people and ask for their help where and when you need it. Some of them may be experts in what you need to know. Some of them may have already achieved similar goals and have valuable experiences from which you can learn. Some of them may know someone who can help you. You need to network and increase your contacts. The more people you know, the more potential help you have.
As for the middle group, it will take a lot of your time and energy to change their minds and turn them into a help rather than a hindrance. Unless their support is essential, it is often better to just avoid them and focus your attention elsewhere.
Now, how about you? You are potentially your biggest helper. Visualise your success - imagine the positive outcomes of achieving your goals then keep that picture in mind. Think of it often. The stronger and clearer that picture is, the more motivated and committed you are and the more likely your success.
Persistence is key. J.K. Rowling (who, you must admit, is successful whether you like Harry Potter or not) was rejected by 12 publishers before she found her lucky thirteenth. Giving up is the surest route to failure. Think positive - persist!
Ask yourself: "What positive step can I take today towards my goals?" If you take one small step each day, that is 365 steps in a single year. Imagine where 365 steps could take you! Just one action per week would be 52 per year, which could be enough.
Think about it. What could you do today?
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