One of the most important things you need to keep in mind when attempting to talk with someone about their alcoholism and any other concerns you may be having regarding their drinking is, do not, under any circumstances go into this being the least bit judgmental or too pushy. That is not the way to deal with an alcoholic. You have got to be sensitive when speaking to them, just let them know that you are discussing this with them out of concern, just do not be too dramatic, it is not about you, it is about them. If you can talk with them calmly then they are more apt to responding a little differently. If you stress them out too much during the conversation, nothing good can come from it. They will withdraw instantly and start thinking back to all the reasons why they started drinking in the first place. You want to help them, not hurt them.

If you are trying to help a friend or loved one recover from alcoholism, then take some of this advice because you will get much further with them if you do. Talk to them about what they like to do, where they like to go, when they are drinking. From there, talk about the different things that you all can do together, away from anything that would get their mind on drinking. It would be best if they totally avoid any type of social events where drinking is occurring because there is too much of a chance that they can not handle being around anyone else drinking, without them wanting to drink. Be as encouraging and positive as you can be, even when they are not responding the way you wish they would. You have to be patient and understanding with an alcoholic, it is not easy for them either. They will feel as if everyone around that is only trying to help, is actually just judging them. They will see things differently than you, in the beginning. If you are aware of these things, then hopefully it will help guide you the right way, when trying to help someone you know that is in need.