On the internet the psychology is much the same as only the form of communication is new and unique to many. We are all very much the same, on the net or in real life. Being able to open up who you are and relating is critical to your success.
Honestly, it's not easy for me to disclose myself this way. We are much alike, you and I, in that respect. We hide our real selves from the world. We keep our insecurities, doubts, weaknesses, our needs under cover. Perhaps we are saying, "I don't want you to give me the things I need because I have asked for them. I don't want your pity and charity. I just want your love and your respect."
So we conceal our deepest longings. Like a ghost in our closet, making sure we earn that which we hope for from others. Maybe that's all right. At any rate, that's that way it is.
So why do I bother going through this unnatural process?
Because I don't believe you are very much different from me. We may have traveled separate paths to get this way or perhaps different roads to end up in the same place. Our emotional temperatures might vary. But if you look beneath the surface we are really quite alike.
We all yearn to be needed, wanted and loved. We want to mean something to someone. We need appreciation, satisfaction, recognition, acceptance, fulfillment, and a whole lot of other things that we reach out for from inside.
Most of us are much alike. Remember, to the degree you give others what they need. They will give you what you need.
And what do others need? All we really need to do is look well within ourselves, and you will find that which exists in others. What you need, they need. What is closest to your heart emotionally is also closest to theirs. You are your own measuring device, your own barometer, of what your need to give in order to get what you need from life. These things we know inside but somehow never seem to realize. Can you relate to that?
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