Through the years, I’ve been privileged to know many incredible people who have had a profound effect on me. They are wonderful examples of living in the moment; of how practicing this philosophy can change not only the individual who lives in the now, but how much they can affect those around them. I’d like to share a couple of their stories with you.
Verna
When I was working on a doctorate degree, I had the good fortune of meeting Verna, a wonderful woman who lived in a local nursing home. Verna was basically alone in the world. Her husband and son had both died. Her only grandson was a drug addict, and she hadn’t heard from him in years. On top of everything else, she was plagued by multiple health problems. And yet, Verna was one of the happiest people I have ever met. Instead of moping around thinking about all of the things that had gone wrong in her life, she spent her days trying to make everyone in the nursing home feel better. She chose to be happy, in spite of her life’s circumstances. “God has kept me here for a reason,” she said cheerfully. That reason was to reach out to other people and fill their days with as much joy as Verna could provide for them. By refusing to succumb to negative thoughts in spite of her surroundings, and by accepting “what is,” Verna found peace and contentment. I was drawn to Verna because of her positive attitude, and I rarely missed our weekly breakfast together. Though she has passed away, I’ve never forgotten her.
Betty
Another good friend is Betty, an inspiring woman whom I met in a meditation group. When Betty was in her thirties, she began having severe medical problems. She talks about the fact that she actually died during surgery and the near death experience that she had when her heart stopped. Betty describes it as a blissful, intense and mystical feeling. She was “at one with the Universe and enjoyed the ultimate sense of peace.” She was revived, but never fully recovered. The result has been years of poor health and living in intermittent episodes of pain. Her life looked very bleak, and she had pretty much given up on everything. While undergoing physical therapy, Betty met a little girl who was also having treatments. The child had such a positive outlook on life, she inspired Betty to accept her own situation, to love life, and to live in the moment. That was 35 years ago. Today Betty uses a walker, wears braces on her legs, and lives alone. Still, she is one of the most peaceful, loving people I have ever met. She is totally comfortable with her
physical problems, and has learned to love life. While meditating, Betty often has
mystical experiences, harkening back to her near death experience.
Through the years, I’ve known children in hospital oncology wards. Many of these kids were in pain; some were dying. You’d think that they would be extremely unhappy and depressed. But these kids are absolutely amazing. They are typically upbeat and positive, in spite of their suffering. These beautiful children have barely lived their lives; and yet, they’re not afraid of dying. Many who are terminally ill continue to hang onto life, even though they are in pain. Why? Because they’re worried about the anguish their family will experience when they die. Most of these children are peaceful because they are accepting what’s happening in the moment. I highly recommend that each of you visits an oncology ward to meet some of these remarkable kids. They are truly an inspiration.
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