How To Accept Yourself, The Brian Tracy Way!
If you want to succeed in this world, you first have to be able to
accept yourself as you are. There are so many people having plastic
surgery these days, that most of them just simply look plastic. Would
you rather look plastic or accept yourself like you already are? You
know that perfect baby your parents loved and adored.
With all the negativity out there it is really hard to accept yourself
as you are. Do you remember the Twiggy days? Twiggy was a skinny
model, that everyone wanted to look like. People were purging their
food and becoming malnutrition just to look like her.
To want to look like a perfect movie star, a skinny model or continue
to look like your in your twenties can be very dangerous. You need to
start just accepting yourself as you are.
Brian Tracy
Brian Tracy says that self acceptance begins in infancy! With the
influence of your parents, siblings and other important people is
where self acceptance begins. You have to start having a good attitude
toward yourself. Stop caring what others think, think you are that
beautiful baby that your parents just brought home to show off to
their family and friends.
You have to start understanding your own feelings. What you feel on
the inside is what you will portray on the outside. Think happy
thoughts, put on a happy smile, let yourself glow, that is what
matters and that is how others will see you.
Forget what may have happened to you in the past. Find someone you
trust and talk to them. The best way to forget is to tell someone and
then let it go. Some things that may have happened in your past, you
will never forget, that is ok, just learn to forgive. Never hold a
grudge, as that will eat you up inside and you will never find self
acceptance.
No One Is Perfect
We are all human beings and none of us are perfect. Learn to accept
you flaws and cherish the good parts. Let the good parts exceed your
flaws and soon your flaws will be no more.
Think about when you walk into a room full of people, and everyone is
yelling, cussing, and in really bad moods. Instantly you start feeling
the same way. You get all caught up in what is going on.
How about when you walk into a room when everyone is happy, laughing,
dancing, and even singing. It instantly puts you in a great mood and
all you want to do is laugh and dance with them.
Having self acceptance works the same way. When you are in a bad
mood, you pick out all your flaws even more, and the world sucks.
When your in a great mood, you do not even think about that you even
have any flaws, and the world is awesome!
Be honest with yourself, everyone has good points and bad points. We
all have certain strengths and weaknesses. Take a good look at
yourself and only see the good, before you know it everyone else will
only see the good too.
Take Inventory
Brian Tracy says to take an inventory of yourself. Think of what
makes you unique, what you have that makes you successful in your
industry or career. What made you get to where you are right now,
what brings out that big smile on your face.
Think about your future, where do you want to be in life, where do you
want to go? What kind of person do you want to be on the inside.
Remember what happens on the inside will portray to the outside. Take
things step by step, make your goals small to start. Do not try to fix
the outside of you before you fix the inside.
Learn to accept yourself as you are and not only will you be happy and
successful, so will everyone you come in contact with.
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