No matter how painful and unpleasant it can be, your life as a couple happens to end up for good. Yes...forever. No getting back together, no hope for phone calls that can reconcile you. It is not important whose fault it is, now it is pointless that she stopped to be feminine and attractive. The same about him, it is not an issue that he was not always there when she needed him and that he did not know how to listen to her and show his feelings. When the moment of a break-up appears, nothing matters, even if, many times the blame will be passed from one to the other.
Those moments, when the two lovers did not accept reality, did not want a final break-up and wanted to keep the bond for the sake of the children, members of community, relatives and friends, are a mistake. Another mistake is to keep the bond only because of feeling lonely, not being able to face life without somebody next to you or because the bed is empty when waking up in the morning. Why can't we end-up a relationship that is already broken? It is because we get accustomed being like this, knowing there is another person somewhere near us. It is true we cannot forget a person and all the memories related to this person: happy moments, the first kiss, the first night of passion, touches and whispers. They will be with us forever. Let's just try to detach ourselves from them, not to be absorbed in a vicious momentum.
We still have moments of realism, lucidity when we realize that the life with the person next to us, being totally opposed to what it used to be, is not possible.
We see it is time for a fresh start, so let's leave the past and concentrate on the future. Why not look for love and find it?
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