In the U. S., a lot of men pine for that pleasant, down-to-earth young woman - no matter what they are saying aloud. In addition to friendship, men wish for a woman to spoil and treat like a princess, if the truth be known. Someone who will look up to them, and depend on them to make things right each time they go wrong. A man likes to play the teacher when his woman doesn't know something - and desires a pupil who will be in awe of his skills. In other words, men want someone who makes them feel they are the kind of gentleman others desire to be - one who is well-liked for his intelligence, respected for his physical strength, and loved for his understanding personality, as well.
Mother Russia's little girl desires of such a hero to carry her away from a drab life, to a castle of gold. Inside her eyes, this type of man can make all that's wrong turn right. How can a woman resist a man who showers her with attention, and makes her his queen? The fairytale comes true after all - she has everything, and much more, than she always dreamed, all lovingly given to her by the man sent to adore, and take of her. The fact that he works so hard to get it for her, makes him more valuable to her than ever.
This woman's job is an easy, and noble, labor of love. To ensure that she has a good dinner on the table, along with a drink in her hand for her hero as she smilingly welcomes him at the door every evening, is just common sense. As is teaching her kids to respect and greet with love, the man who takes such excellent care of them. When alone with him, she can give her support in any way he sees fit - lending her ear so he can unleash the days frustrations, or in another, more intimate way, later in private.
On the whole, a lot of men fear their ancient birthright to be men, is becoming a thing of the past. From creation, males are told their job is to be a loving partner and decision-maker, who provides his wife and family with what they need to live comfortably - and does everything in their power to keep them protected. The new no-more-rules for being female rule that rode in with the feminist tide, changed the attitudes of many ladies - and made many men not sure of what they must do with this strange, and slightly less-feminine, new creature.
The perfect lady to many men, whether they admit it or not, is one with culture, charm, grace and intelligence - who also happens to be content in her position as a woman, - and enjoys the details of that role. In addition, this woman would also completely agree that there's no place in a man's world where it really is proper for a lady to try to fit in. Russian girls, being fair of face and body - and known to defer to their men - fit the role of that dream girl almost to a "T". It may be that U . s . men looking for this kind of traditional life with a traditional woman, may have found it after all, with these exotic women. These days a woman who actually chooses this traditional kind of role to feel fulfilled, is almost unheard of. Many people in the world do not respect that there are good reasons for differences between the sexes. Maybe because of her upbringing, this girl impulsively knows not to cross boundaries not meant for her.
Then sum total of "man plus woman" adds up for these Russian ladies, who want only the one Prince Charming meant for them - and they will request no more of life past this. As they see it, God gave them the correct role to fill, and nothing else is necessary - especially not the difficulties of a man's world.
It's clear there are some valid reasons that make a Russian women a perfect partner for a western men - and according to the similar qualities both want in a mate, the strongest one probably be that both appear to be searching for the other.
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Mark De Schutter is the webmaster of a Russian dating service called "Russian Dating Live". This is an internet dating service for men who would wish to get in contact Russian brides who are serious about marriage to Western men.
