If you're going through a breakup right now, you probably know it'll pass, but you're probably also sick and tired of hearing that. You don't care that it "will" pass because right now you can't think about anything but what you want and don't have—and it's tearing your heart in half.
I felt the same way when I was trying to get over my ex girlfriend.
It will pass though, and the important thing is finding some ways to make it pass a little quicker. Here are 5 things I did to get over my ex girlfriend.
1. I went to the Gym.
One of the best things you can do is find ways to feel better about yourself. And I know of no better way than going to the gym. I laid around the house for about 3 or 4 days after I got dumped. I didn't want to move.
And then I sat up and said, it's time to work on myself. As I started getting more fit, the more confidence I gained—that was enough reason in itself, but you should have seen the look on her face when I ran into her five months later.
2. I Found a Hobby.
As bad as it hurt to lose what we had, I realized on my way home from the gym one day that I'd gained a whole new world of freedom. I didn't have to spend all my time hanging out with my girlfriend or watching lame chick flicks.
Is there some hobby that you've always wanted to try but between her and work you never had the time? Brazilian jujitsu helped me get over my ex girlfriend—but what have you been wanting to try out?
Surfing? Scuba diving? Guitar? The right kind of hobby gives your life a whole new purpose.
3. I Reconnected With Friends.
It seems like the unhealthier your relationship the more you lose touch with your friends. I personally realized I had completely neglected my friends for about a year and a half. What was I thinking?
Women come and go, for the most part anyways, but a good friend will always be there. Take this time to spend time with your friends and make up for time lost. You'll be amazed at how supportive they are even when you ditched them for so long.
4. I Took a Road Trip.
A great way to make a blast back to reality with your bros is to go on a road trip. Get out of town, get a change of scenery, and go cause some ruckus where people don't know you. Even if you don't go with your friends, cruise out of town and visit someone you haven't seen in a while.
For me, all that quiet time on the road was a good time to reflect on where my life was heading...not to mention that getting out of town provided ample time for the next activity.
5. I Met More Girls.
This goes without saying...but I bet you're still sitting there thinking, "But none of them are liker her." Yeah, sure.
I thought the same thing, but after a couple microbrews and a night gone right with a flirty waitress, I lost that silly notion pretty quick.
Nothing can get you over the hump quicker than a new woman.
Are you at a loss to move on and want some more advice?
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One thing I didn't mention here on this list that helped me get over my ex girlfriend was connecting with people who've been through the same thing. To find out more about what you can do to move on with your life when it seems impossible, go to http://www.GetOverHerNow.com.
